There is little doubt that when a couple break up for any length of time then there is going to be a natural inclination to miss each other. Are you in this situation now and asking yourself does my ex want me back?If so, be careful not to make a rash decision and jump straight back in. In other words, don't bring it up and look desperate and needy because the chances are good that you will push them away. In fact, they will more than likely back off.
It's understandable that you want to test the waters if you still have strong feelings for them and a deep desire to renew aquaintances but why not make absolutely sure this is just not a passing phase. By jumping back in for the short term you run the risk of getting hurt again if they were just acting on those feelings of missing you.
It's natural for them to miss you because you have some good memories together but there are also some you will want to forget. Acting on the impulse of the good memories is a little dangerous because once the bad times are dredged up then you could wind up on opposite sides of the fence once again.
Other Things To Consider
It's a common question...does my ex want me back and it's normal to be a little curious. Here are some other things to consider.
- Play a little hard to get at first. You don't want to give them the impression you are a desperate with no prospects and you'll take anything that comes along. Time to show that ol' pride here and if they want you then they are going to have to work a little.
- You'll need to play hard to get in moderation though because this is what your ex will most likely respond to.
- If you jump in hard and fast and get back together with them at the first sign of an invitation then you'll more than likely come across needy and desperate and your ex will most likely be put off by this and start pushing you back again. Can you see the reasoning here?
- It's quite likely that the renewed interest has come simply from the fact that you were playing hard to get anyway so make them earn it and keep them curious. This is a powerful attraction factor but as we said earlier, it needs a little moderation especially when assessing if your ex wants you back or is just playing games.
